i’m so so so so pissed off with my boss’s secretary. as in!!!!
grrrrr….. why can’t they just fire her. why can’t they just let her go!!!
she’s not doing her work anymore and worse, i am doing things that should be her tasks! what the…!!!!
i mean i don’t intend to offend secretaries. you guys have one of the most difficult tasks in the working world. and hats off to all of you. but dammit! this person that i am talking about is very different. in my previous blog, i mentioned that we are friendly friends and that i am so sad that my boss is always yelling at her but, now i truly understand why. incompetence is such a baby word to describe her. it’s like i’m about to cry. she’s not doing any work anymore. she’s always not at her desk. when you ask her about something, she would redirect you to another person, when you ask for her help, she would just pretend that she appreciates your output(mind you, i am doing her work). %&$’&#”%&’&%$#%**!!!!
if i could just shout all of my frustrations at her, i would, but i can’t.
i do really love my work ( my official work ) but if my boss will not have his own secretary other than her, i am so willing to leave my job. i’d rather come back to my bumming life at home. i very much like pressure at work(as in), but i so much hate stress. and she stresses me out! and the bad part is the cause of my stress is not my work! damn her!
the reason of why i am now more pissed at her than 2 hours ago:
i have just read my email at home and i read her reply to my email ( i was asking the contact details of his/our boss’ close associates, and she told me this: lucelle san ask _(name deleted)_ san >> [his local number here]. tangna! she knows i’m at home and she will give me the local number of this person for me to call, when she’s just in the office and she could do that herself. hay… ang presyon ng dugo ko, lumalagpas sa ulo ko!
ok i have to blurt this out because i don’t want to keep it within me. sorry for all my curses. she just makes me go insane. i was thinking of all the good things that i have done for her and all the tasks that i did for her because she does not know and does not ever learn ( no matter how many times i teach her ). mawawalan ako ng katinuan. i can’t help thinking all of those nice things i did for her. why can’t she just resign. it’s so obvious she’s being so lazy to spite my boss but all of the staff in our department are caught in the middle. i am just catching most of the bad effects because i am coming in the office almost everyday ( we are all part timers ).
and the other stinking part is, my boss is not talking to her anymore. because she’s making him cranky all of the time. as in literally, all of the time. so what he does is ask me to do this and ask me to ask [sec name deleted] for help. now that as i am typing this, i wanna tell my boss why doesn’t he tell that to her himself. $#$&#%$&&##!!!!!
waaaahhhh!!! i hate it! i hate it! huhuhu.. and tomorrow, i need to go to work.
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oh please please Lord, make things smoother. i don’t know how. just make things smoother.
nakakainis siya ha!?!?! ang dali2x lang ng request mo…
pero…kaya mo yan! inhale… exhale… ganyan talaga ang buhay… some are born lesser than you, some are higher than you..
everytime i encounter people like these, iisipin ko nalang, i’m grateful i am not the one to be taught or i am not the one na kinaiinisan. i am grateful i am not as __pid as the other person is (as he/she appeared to me)… i am grateful i am the one who could extend help rather than the one needing it…
some people are plain lazy, some just don’t know how to use their brains and lack even the commonest sense…
side note: isipin mo ang daming ganyang tao sa mga opisina dito sa japan, samantalang maraming very capable sa pinas na walang trabaho. that sure proves ang daming trabaho dito at kulang sa manpower kaya napagtiyagaan nila ang mga taong sa tingin natin ay hindi karapat-dapat..
parang hindi yata higher ang right word… hehe.. “greater” instead…
hehe thanks rose for condoning my outburst. naku talaga naman kasi nakakasagad sa pasensya. this morning, i did not talk to her ( the usual way ). hehe pormal kanina ang drama ko
pero wala pa din. hindi pa din sha tumulong. natapos ko na lahat, sa wakas!
sabagay korek ka ulit dyan,buti na lang hindi ako sha. pero ako kasi hindi naman din ganun kagaling pero i learned to be humble and accept the fact that i have limited skills. so from there, mas natututo ako. kasi mas tanggap ko na na hindi ko alam. pero sha siguro kaya kahit ilang beses na, feeling masyado
ayan nagsasabi na ako ng hindi maganda ( este kahapon pa pala hehe… )
anyway, boss told me later today that he really needs to let her go. asap. i think he found someone to replace her. yoshi! ( i only feel a very teeny tiny pity for her )
o cge later ulit. hehe alis lang kami. meron pa-tii! yey! enjoy din dyan, today is friday =) happy weekend!
I don’t know why she is still there if she is that incompetent..unless the boss is sleeping with her?
Anyhow, I hope you resolve your issues with her. It sucks to go to work if you know your day will probably turn bad.
i don’t think that the sleeping part is the cause ( i definitely hope that it’s not the cause hehe).
anyway, update: boss told me again that he definitely needs to let her go in a few weeks. i think he already found a replacement for her. maybe one of the reasons why he’d a hard time letting her go because she fluently speaks 3 languages(including my boss’s native language — well this is just my opinion).
how did i resolve my issues with her last friday? i did not speak to her and finished the task by myself ( with the other pinay help in the office – thanks so much to her! )
yey! mabyuti na lang until thurs ko na lang sha makikita at next year na ang sunod =D yey!
ikakain na lang muna kita ng handa sa pinas ate grace =)